Its time. Ive prayed on it and Its time. Sometimes staying silent is the worst thing you can do. I decided a while back that I would not participate in active addiction. Ive been clean for over 12 yrs and Ive seen it all. I will help those whole want to be helped and I will love those who are in it from afar. That's just where I am with it right now. I honestly get sick to my stomach from it. "What's the right thing to do?" or "Am I really helping this person or enabling?" There is a solution but a person can't truly start until they stop putting the substance in their body. Till then.....